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This is folklore's opening "what if": not heartbreak, but looking back at "if we hadn't blown it, what now." Don't you keep a seat in your head for someone long gone?

It's the grown-up kind of regret — no drama, just a calm admission you were once someone's "only one." Taylor writes that gentle self-blame feather-light, like: I'm fine, I just sometimes wonder if we'd been wiser.

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